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Secret Desires AI is a Playhouse Media company.

Playhouse Media LLC.

8 The Green STE A
Dover, DE 19901
United States

Playhouse Media Trading Ltd.

Registration Number: C112448 Lek Business Centre Level 1D Triq L-Esportaturi Zone 2, Central Business District, Birkirkara, CBD 2040Malta

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  • Start Here
  • Find and Manage Partners
  • Create and Edit a Partner
  • Chat and Memory
  • Images, Video and Gallery
  • Voice and Calls
  • Plans, Hearts and Billing
  • Account, Privacy and Safety
  • Troubleshooting and Support
  • FAQ

User Guide

Start Here

Welcome to Secret Desires

Secret Desires is an adults-only space for creating and connecting with personalized Partners through chat, images, video, voice, and calls. You must be at least 18 and meet the legal age requirements where you live.

Features vary by account, plan, device, and active experiments. For current prices, limits, engine availability, and Heart costs, always use the values shown inside the app.


Quick Tour

AreaWhat you can do
HomeDiscover public Partners, search, filter, and start chatting.
Create PartnerBuild a Partner's appearance, personality, relationship, lifestyle, voice, and more.
My PartnersFind Partners you created or selected, manage favorites, edit details, and review visibility.
ChatsReturn to recent conversations.
Generate ImagesCreate photos or videos with a selected Partner and engine.
GalleryView, favorite, download, delete, and animate generated media.
Profile / SettingsManage your profile, preferences, account security, and billing.
Hearts HistoryReview Heart activity and investigate unexpected usage.

Your First Five Minutes

  1. Create an account or sign in with the same method you originally used.
  2. Open Profile / Settings and set your display name, preferences, and default chat style.
  3. Choose a public Partner from Home, or select Create Partner to make your own.
  4. Before a new chat, choose Texting or Roleplay and confirm the chat engine.
  5. Add important facts or story rules to the Partner's Memory Notes as your conversation develops.

Find and Manage Partners

Discover a Partner

Use Home to browse public Partners. Search and filters help narrow the library by the options currently available to your account. Select a Partner to see more, then begin a chat or add them to your collection.

Your content and style preferences affect what appears. If expected results are missing, check Profile / Settings > Preferences, then clear any active Home filters.


Use My Partners

My Partners contains Partners you created and public Partners you selected. From here you can:

  • Search by name and use the available filters.
  • Show favorites only.
  • Open a Partner's chat or profile.
  • Edit a Partner you created.
  • Manage profile images and copy a shareable link where available.
  • Delete a Partner you no longer want.

If a conversation appears to be missing, first look for duplicate cards with the same or a similar name and open each one. A prior conversation may still be attached to the original card. Do not delete either card until you find the chat you need.


Public and Private Partners

VisibilityWhat it means
PublicA Partner you created and submitted for review. Once approved, other people can discover the public version.
PrivateA Partner kept for your account, including Partners selected from the public library. Library Partners cannot be re-shared as your own.

Sharing submits a snapshot of the Partner's traits and selected profile carousel images. Your chats, later private edits, and full Gallery are not part of that public snapshot. Later edits do not automatically update the submitted public version.

Review everything carefully before sharing. The app treats the submission as irreversible.


Before You Share

A Partner must have enough eligible profile images to submit and must pass review before appearing publicly. You cannot share:

  • A Partner that uses a face-swap reference.
  • A Partner that uses a custom cloned voice.
  • A Partner originally created by someone else, even after substantial edits.

Only upload or share media and voices you own or have permission to use.


Create and Edit a Partner

Creation Flow

The current creation flow guides you through these groups. Available choices can differ by Gender, Style, and account eligibility.

StepTypical choices
BasicsGender, visual Style, and Age.
AppearanceEye Color, Ethnicity, Hair Style, and Hair Color.
PhysiqueBody Type and other body options when applicable.
TraitsPersonality and your Relationship with the Partner.
LifestyleWork, hobbies, and optional adult preferences.
VoiceA supported voice, plus custom voice options when eligible.
SummaryName, generated preview, and a final review before creation.

Use the random option when you want inspiration, then review the summary before saving.


Write Details That Work

Specific details produce more consistent results than a long list of vague adjectives.

  • Describe the Partner's voice, habits, motivations, boundaries, and relationship dynamic.
  • Put stable facts in the Partner profile and evolving story facts in Memory Notes.
  • Avoid contradictory instructions. If two details conflict, edit the older one.
  • Write profile text from the perspective requested by the field and use the preview to catch mistakes.
  • Change one major trait at a time when tuning behavior so you can tell what helped.

Face Swap and Custom Voice

Face Swap and custom voice cloning may require an eligible subscription. You must affirm that you have consent to use the reference face or voice.

Partners using a face-swap reference or custom cloned voice stay private and cannot be submitted to the public library.


Edit or Delete

Open a Partner you created from My Partners and choose the available edit action. Saved changes affect your private version. If the Partner was already shared, edits do not change the public snapshot.

Deleting a Partner can also remove access to the conversation and associated Partner data. Treat deletion as permanent and confirm you have opened the correct card first.


Chat and Memory

Start a Chat

Open a Partner and begin with a message, a scene, or a direct request. For the most predictable opening, state who is present, where the scene starts, and what you want the Partner to respond to.

Choose the response style and engine before a new conversation when possible. Switching styles in the middle of an established chat can disrupt formatting and tone.


Response Styles and Chat Engines

SettingBest for
TextingShorter, message-like conversation.
RoleplayNarrative scenes, actions, and longer immersive replies.
Chat EngineThe model used for replies. Options, availability, and Heart cost are shown in the selector.

Some engines are included with your plan and do not spend Hearts per message. Cutting-edge or premium engines can use Hearts. Confirm the label and displayed cost before sending if you want to avoid Heart usage. You can change engines, but a new engine may respond differently to the same history.


Partner Chat Settings

Depending on availability, account-wide and Partner-level settings can include:

  • Time Awareness for references to the current time or date.
  • Narrate Bold Roleplay Text for spoken roleplay narration.
  • Texting Realism, including proactive images, voice notes, or calls.
  • Auto Memory to periodically capture useful conversation details.
  • A Partner-specific response style or chat engine override.

Partner-level choices take priority where the app offers an override. If behavior is unexpected, check both the Partner settings and Profile / Settings > Preferences.


Message Tools

Actions vary by message type, ownership, and position in the conversation.

ActionWhat it does
RegenerateRequests a different Partner reply.
ContinueLets the Partner continue from its latest reply.
EditChanges a message and therefore the context used by later replies.
DeleteRemoves the selected message.
CopyCopies message text.
Speak / NarrateCreates or plays voice audio when supported.
Like / DislikeSends feedback about a Partner reply.

If a reply is stuck, wait briefly, try Regenerate, then refresh. If needed, copy your last message before deleting or editing anything so you can resend it safely.


How Memory Works

Long conversations have a finite active context, so older details can eventually stop influencing new replies. Use the two memory tools deliberately:

  • Memory Notes are the reliable place for facts, preferences, names, boundaries, and story rules you want applied consistently. Your manual notes take priority if they conflict with automatic notes.
  • Auto Memory periodically summarizes selected details from conversation history when enabled. It complements manual notes but may not capture every detail.

Keep notes short, explicit, and current. Remove contradictions and copy anything essential into your own backup. If the Partner forgets something, add or correct it in Memory Notes instead of repeatedly extending the chat.


Images, Video and Gallery

Generate Photos or Video

Open Generate Images, select a Partner, then choose Photos or Video when available. The page lets you choose an engine, quantity, prompt, action, outfit, and other workflow-specific options.

The app displays eligibility and Heart cost for the selected workflow. These values can change, so the live generator is the source of truth. Video and some engines may require a paid plan or additional Hearts.


Better Prompts

Describe the result you want rather than restating the Partner's entire profile. A useful prompt usually includes:

  1. The scene or location.
  2. The action or pose.
  3. Clothing or styling.
  4. Lighting, camera angle, or mood when important.

Start simple. Add one correction at a time if anatomy, composition, or clothing is wrong. Switching engines can help because each engine interprets prompts differently.


Use the Gallery

The Gallery collects generated media. Available actions include viewing, adding to favorites, downloading, deleting, and selecting images for a Partner's profile carousel.

Eligible still images can be turned into a live photo or video by choosing the available video engine, prompt, and duration. Review the displayed Heart cost before confirming.


Images and Media in Chat

A Partner can create media from chat when that message type or proactive feature is enabled and supported. Proactive images and voice notes are controlled through Texting Realism settings.

If you do not want proactive media or its possible Heart usage, turn the relevant Partner-level toggle off.


If a Generation Looks Stuck

  1. Wait a few moments, then check the Partner's Gallery. The result may have completed even if it did not appear in chat.
  2. Refresh the page and try once more.
  3. Try another currently available image or video engine.
  4. Sign out and back in, clear site cache and cookies, or use a private window.
  5. Try another browser or device.

If Hearts were used but no result appears, contact support with the Partner, engine, workflow, approximate time and timezone, and a screenshot. Support can investigate the transaction, but adjustments are reviewed case by case.


Voice and Calls

Voice Options

Choose a supported voice while creating or editing a Partner. In chat, supported Partner messages can be spoken or narrated. Proactive voice notes can be enabled through Texting Realism when available.

Custom voice cloning is limited to eligible accounts and requires permission to use the source voice. A Partner with a custom cloned voice cannot be shared publicly.


Start and Receive Calls

Calls use your device microphone and the Partner's selected voice. Allow microphone access when your browser asks. Proactive calls must also be enabled for that Partner if you want the Partner to initiate them.

Availability, included talk time, and any Heart cost appear in the live call controls or subscription screen.


Call or Microphone Troubleshooting

  • Confirm microphone permission for Secret Desires in both your browser and device settings.
  • Close other tabs or apps that may be using the microphone.
  • Refresh, then sign out and back in.
  • Clear site cache and cookies or try a private window.
  • Try another supported browser or device.
  • If you use a VPN or privacy extension, test once with it disabled.

If the problem continues, send support the Partner name, device, browser, exact error, and whether voice notes work in the same chat.


Plans, Hearts and Billing

Check Current Plans and Limits

Secret Desires may show different plan presentations, promotions, limits, or feature experiments. Open Subscription for the offers currently available to your account and Profile / Settings > Billing for your active plan.

Do not rely on an old screenshot, email, or guide for a price or quota. The amount and terms shown at checkout are authoritative for that purchase.


How Hearts Work

Hearts are used by selected premium actions. Plan-included engines and features can have no per-use Heart charge, while cutting-edge chat engines, premium media engines, video, voice, or calls may use Hearts.

  • Check the displayed Heart cost before sending or generating.
  • Changing an engine can change the cost.
  • Open Hearts History to review activity.
  • Turn off proactive images, voice notes, or calls if you do not want those Partner actions to use Hearts.

Exact costs are intentionally not listed here because they are set dynamically.


Manage Billing or Cancel

Open Profile / Settings > Billing to review your current plan and payment details. Use Update Payment when you need to replace the saved payment method.

To stop renewal, choose Cancel Subscription from Billing and complete every confirmation step. Keep the final confirmation for your records. Cancel before deleting your account.


Charge or Membership Problem

If a payment succeeded but the membership still looks inactive, first sign out and back in and confirm you used the same email or Google account that made the purchase.

For a duplicate, unexpected, or unrecognized charge, email contact@secretdesires.ai from the account email when possible. Include:

  • The account email.
  • Charge date, amount, and currency.
  • The plan or checkout flow you expected.
  • A screenshot with sensitive payment details hidden.

Never email your password or full card number. Support may request a limited payment identifier privately if it is needed to locate a transaction.


Account, Privacy and Safety

Sign In to the Right Account

Use the same sign-in method and email you used when registering. If you registered with Gmail through Google, choose Continue with Google and select that same Google account.

If you have several email addresses, an apparently empty account often means a different address or sign-in method was used. Check the email shown in Profile / Settings before contacting support.


Reset Your Password

Select Forgot Password from the login screen and enter the account email. Check spam, junk, and filtered folders. Password reset links expire after 24 hours, so request a new one if the link is old.

If the form loops or does not load, clear site cache and cookies, open a private window, or try another browser or device.


Profile and Preferences

Your settings can include profile picture, display name, About Me, age, gender, content preferences, visual style preference, default response style, default chat engine, Time Awareness, Auto Memory, and other feature toggles.

Some settings also exist at the Partner level. When a Partner behaves differently from your account default, check that Partner's settings for an override.


Protect Your Privacy

  • Do not put passwords, payment card numbers, government IDs, or other sensitive information in chats, public profiles, Discord, or support screenshots.
  • Review profile images and traits before submitting a Partner publicly.
  • Only use face and voice references you own or have permission to use.
  • Keep account and billing questions in private email, not public Discord channels.
  • Use the reporting and policy links in the app for prohibited content or safety concerns.

Delete Your Account

Account deletion is permanent and removes access to your account, Partners, chats, and associated data. If a subscription is active, cancel it or complete the offered transfer flow first.

Then open Profile / Settings > Settings, choose Delete Account, and follow the confirmation prompts. Do not delete the account as a substitute for cancelling a subscription.


Troubleshooting and Support

Quick Fixes

ProblemTry this first
Cannot sign inConfirm the original email and sign-in method, reset the password if applicable, then try a private window.
Partner reply is stuckWait briefly, try Regenerate, refresh, then resend your last message after copying it.
Partner forgot somethingCorrect or add it in Memory Notes and remove conflicting notes.
Chat seems missingCheck Chats and every duplicate-looking card in My Partners before deleting anything.
Image or video is missingCheck Gallery, refresh, then try another engine.
Hearts look wrongReview Hearts History and note the engine, action, and approximate time.
Paid plan looks inactiveSign out and back in, then confirm the purchase and login use the same account email.
Call has no audioCheck microphone permission, close other microphone apps, and try another browser or device.
A setting will not saveRefresh, change it once more, and check for a Partner-level override.

Browser Reset Checklist

When a page is stale, looping, or partly loaded:

  1. Save or copy any unsent text.
  2. Refresh the page.
  3. Sign out and back in.
  4. Clear Secret Desires site cache and cookies.
  5. Try a private or incognito window.
  6. Try another current browser or device.
  7. Temporarily test without a VPN, ad blocker, or privacy extension.

If the same problem survives those steps, send a detailed report rather than repeating purchases or destructive actions.


Contact the Right Place

ChannelBest for
Email supportAccount access, billing, missing Hearts, failed generations, and issues involving private account information. Replies are typically sent within 24-72 working hours.
Public DiscordCommunity discussion, tips, announcements, and checking whether others see a broad issue. Never post private account or payment information.
Submit a BugReproducible product bugs with clear steps and screenshots.

The public Discord server ID is 1194708291180306452. Email is the safest route for anything tied to your account.


What to Include in a Support Request

A useful report includes:

  • Your registered account email.
  • The page, Partner, engine, and feature involved.
  • Approximate date, time, and timezone.
  • What you expected and what happened instead.
  • Exact steps that reproduce the problem.
  • Device, operating system, and browser.
  • The exact error text and a screenshot with private details hidden.
  • For billing: charge date, amount, currency, and expected plan.

Send one complete request and reply in the same email thread with updates. Never send your password, full card number, or private chat content.


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